My child is starting pre-school

The first school day is fast approaching. Is your toddler keen to discover new things and make new friends? Or are they feeling anxious about this new step? We provide a number of tips that aim to make the next phase as worry-free as possible.

• Do you have the opportunity to pay a visit to your child's classroom and meet their teacher in advance? Then take advantage of this! Many schools organise just such an introduction at the end of the holidays.
• Talk to your child about what to expect, but keep the conversation light. Reassure them that you will ‘come back’ to collect them at the end of the day.
• Go and purchase a satchel, together with your child. Make a fun occasion of it. Link the satchel to a positive experience.
• Prepare the satchel the evening before, together with your child. That way they know what’s inside it. And fill it with a number of familiar items.
• Pay close attention to what you provide your child in the way of food. Planning to give your child fruit? Then cut it into small, bite-sized chunks and make sure it’s a fruit that your child enjoys. That way it’s nice and familiar, and one less thing for your child to worry about.
• Don’t drag out your goodbyes at the school gate. Say ‘goodbye’ firmly and clearly. Also assure your child that you will be back shortly. And that there’s always a teacher on hand to dry any tears.
• Don’t overwhelm your child with questions when picking them up from school. The first day is a flood of impressions and they will be pretty tired. Give your little one the time and space they need and allow them to determine for themselves how much they wish to reveal about their day.
• Did their first day at school not go very well? Is your child reluctant to return the following day? Be patient!
• Give it some time. If their reluctance persists, then discuss it with their teacher.